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A Dog Training Revelation

We haven’t done any updates on our dog training efforts for a while because there wasn’t much to talk about. We work with the boys every day on their reactivity to other dogs when on-leash and on their heeling skills. Progress has been slow – so slow that it sometimes feels like we’re hardly improving at all. And so it went, until the day we met up with Mary-Alice, and the impeccably mannered Chloe, of Dog Jaunt.

Mary-Alice and Chloe

After reading Mary-Alice’s post about Seward Park, I knew we had to see it when we got to Seattle. So when she suggested it as a place to meet up for a walk and a picnic, I couldn’t have been more excited. We got there a little early and took Buster and Ty for a walk help them settle down a bit. When Mary-Alice and Chloe arrived, Ty was back in his bed, happily chomping on a stuffed KONG toy, and Buster was chilling out on the side walk.

If you haven’t had the opportunity to meet Chloe, let me just tell you that she is the epitome of the perfect dog – happy, friendly, adorable, and well-mannered. When she jumped out of the car, Buster was instantaneously smitten. Not in the “in-your-face, I-can’t-get-enough-of-you” way, but in the “Dang, I better be on my best behavior so I can impress this girl” way. After briefly introducing Chloe and Buster, we headed for the trails.

Seward-Park-Seattle-WA

Seward Park is a 300-acre peninsula that sticks out into Lake Washington. There is a paved path around the outside and wooded paths criss-crossing the middle. It was a beautiful day and a lot of people and their dogs were taking advantage of the weather.

Seward Park - Seattle, WA

Those of you who know Buster (either virtually or in real life), know that trails with lots of other dogs on leashes are a problem for him. Well, not this time! We arranged ourselves so that Buster was on the outside of the trail, furthest away from passing dogs, and Chloe was on the inside – happily greeting anyone that wanted to say hello. Perhaps it was how happy and calm Chloe was, or maybe Buster could see how she interacted with other dogs and people – either way, he behaved beautifully! It was incredible for Rod and I to see Buster’s potential … and we gave him so many treats I’m surprised he didn’t burst. We took the opportunity to play a lot of “Where’s the doggy?” and then headed for the uncrowded areas of the park before we over did it.

Seward Park - Seattle, WA

Buster has since reverted back to his pre-Chloe behaviors – needing much more distance between him and other dogs to avoid a barking jag – but that’s not the point. The point is we learned something – if we find Buster a walking buddy with the same skills as Chloe, it could result in a break through. We’ll be looking for volunteers when we take a break for a couple of months in Austin this winter. It was also huge for us to get to see that the big goof-ball has it in him to be so much fun to walk. After months and months of baby steps, it gave us a picture of our future together that we can envision.

Thanks so much to Mary-Alice and Chloe – for lunch and for the revelation!

Seward Park - Seattle, WA

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Pup Fan Oct 12, 2011 at 9:43 pm
Looks like a beautiful day!
lauren @ life with desmond Oct 12, 2011 at 4:36 pm
that is awesome to hear, and i really hope you find a great partner in texas. good luck!
Kristine Oct 11, 2011 at 12:38 pm
That's fantastic! I am so glad you had such a great day in such a beautiful location. Even if Buster doesn't do as well all the time, now you know that it is at least possible for him to have a great time in a busy area. That's pretty huge, I'd say. Congratulations!
Roxanne @ Champion of My Heart Oct 11, 2011 at 11:48 am
Well, we adore Mary-Alice and Cloe. So, we're also jealous you guys got to hang out at such a lovely place with great weather. I think that's an important thing to know about Buster. Lilly is very much the same way. She does MUCH better in public, if she is with a dog who has strong social skills. I just let our well-mannered friends "block" for us, and Lilly can relax. Excellent breakthrough. Yay, Buster. Yay, Cloe.
Oct 11, 2011 at 9:23 am
Everyone else has said what I would want to say about dog behavior. I just want to say that I'm intensely jealous that some of my favorite people -- and dogs! -- got to hang out together in such a beautiful setting without me.
Amy@GoPetFriendly Oct 11, 2011 at 8:17 am
It's a thought, but honestly I was pretty nervous - until after I saw how well Buster was reacting to the other dogs, and then I got pretty excited. I imagine I'm far more relaxed when I'm out walking Buster alone. I'm pretty sure we have to give the credit to Chloe. =)
Amy@GoPetFriendly Oct 11, 2011 at 8:17 am
LOL! She really does like goose poop.
www.YourOldDog.com Oct 11, 2011 at 2:09 am
Dogs are so in tune with our emotions; I'm wondering if Buster sensed that maybe the entire family was relaxed today?
Mary-Alice Oct 10, 2011 at 10:20 pm
She's probably searching for goose poop, the wretched creature. (Even at her most wretched, though, she's still darned cute.)
Amy@GoPetFriendly Oct 10, 2011 at 9:22 pm
I'm so glad to hear that you're training has been successful! One trainer I worked with told me to keep a "pet behavior journal" because she knew I was always focusing on the things that were still giving us trouble and completely forgetting about the accomplishments we'd achieved. Now, the blog kind of serves that purpose for me. I can scan back and remember exactly how the dogs behaved just by reading the posts. I'm also grateful that, in some small way, I was able to contribute to Clyde's improvement by making it easier for you to plan your roadtrip with him. That totally makes my day. =D
Amy@GoPetFriendly Oct 10, 2011 at 9:18 pm
Isn't it a delight to walk along with a dog that's not barking?!? Yep, I've gotten so tired of explaining that Buster's not aggressive - just noisy - that I've stopped doing it. Now, when he has a flare up, I just keep on walking. What ever I have to say is probably not going to convince anyone that he's not a nut given his behavior, so why try? The sooner I move away, the sooner Buster can start relaxing - and that's what's best for him.
Amy@GoPetFriendly Oct 10, 2011 at 9:11 pm
Thanks, Mary-Alice. We loved seeing you and Chloe, too. I've loved Chloe from the moment I met her, but now she has a special place in my heart for bringing out the best in Buster. I hope we see you again soon!
Amy@GoPetFriendly Oct 10, 2011 at 9:09 pm
Good to know, Linda! And thanks, we'll definitely let you know when we get back that way. =)
Amy@GoPetFriendly Oct 10, 2011 at 9:08 pm
Thanks Laura - we're definitely looking forward to it!
Amy@GoPetFriendly Oct 10, 2011 at 9:06 pm
Debbie, do you think there are other things that would raise Buster's "feeling good" quotient that we could start implementing now, rather than having to wait until we stop in Austin in a few months? Have you found any with Sunny? Toys don't seem to work - he just drops them and I end up carrying them home.
Amy@GoPetFriendly Oct 10, 2011 at 9:06 pm
Thank you. I was really proud of the big lunk.
Amy@GoPetFriendly Oct 10, 2011 at 9:03 pm
You know, I never really thought about whether Buster might want a calm, happy leader like Chloe. I guess there wasn't much point, because he's stuck with Ty for a brother, and calm and happy are not words I'd use to describe him! But after this experience, it makes perfect sense that we'd find a dog like Chloe to work with - the learning curve for Buster could really accelerate with the right doggy mentor. No, she's not laying on her back - but she's still ridiculously cute! =)
Amy@GoPetFriendly Oct 10, 2011 at 9:00 pm
Thanks Pamela. I think I'm going to quit carrying treats and stock my pockets with airplane-sized bottles of liquor! =)
Pamela Oct 10, 2011 at 7:45 pm
Dogs take cues from other dogs and they also take cues from us. Part of today's success may have also been how calm Mary-Alice was because she knew Chloe would be fine. Kristine of Rescued Insanity found her dog Shiva was more calm around other dogs when she (Kristine) had a couple classes of wine before their walk. :) I hope you have many more breakthroughs and enjoyable walks with Buster.
Karen Friesecke Oct 10, 2011 at 6:24 pm
Some dogs need a "leader" to take their behavior cues from. Maybe Buster felt that Chloe was being a "buffer" to dogs that he didn't want to meet? Maybe Chloe was being the "okay" thermometer for Buster. If the dog was okay for Chloe it was okay for him. In the last picture, is Chloe lying on her back in the grass? She looks so cute :D
debbie jacobs Oct 10, 2011 at 6:05 pm
Sounds like feeling good with Chloe gave Buster more 'wiggle room' when it came to seeing other dogs. Sunny's tolerance for people goes up when his 'feeling good' quotient is raised by being with other dogs.
TheElkaAlmanac Oct 10, 2011 at 4:56 pm
Progress is slow, but it almost always occurs!  You must have been so proud, that's wonderful! What a lovely park!
Laura Oct 10, 2011 at 4:16 pm
This is wonderful news! :) I know Caitlin and her dogs will be able to help you with his leash reactivity when you guys come back to Austin. 
Linda Oct 10, 2011 at 3:56 pm
It's so nice to hear your success stories with Buster as I know how hard you have been working with him, and with Ty. Let me know next time you're back in Colorado Springs, because my Cavalier Missy is just like Chloe. I'm sure she'd love to help Buster have another great success!
Mary-Alice Oct 10, 2011 at 3:08 pm
Awww. I love this post. Buster's a big sweetheart, and I loved seeing you guys working so beautifully with him. Come back anytime!!
Julie Melfi Oct 10, 2011 at 2:55 pm
It's funny, we just noticed a couple of weeks ago when we had one of Cali's dog pals along with us on a walk that she never barked at another dog! Usually, she barks at any dog she sees coming, almost like she's yelling out "hey, there's a dog coming . . .".  She's friendly, but it gets old always having to say, "she's friendly, just a little noisy with the greeting!".  She must feel better having another dog pal along . .she definitely likes being a part of the pack :) I'm glad Buster had so much fun!  I've never met a Cavalier that wasn't a total love bug :)
S.L. Oct 10, 2011 at 2:22 pm
Yes, I have.  But I can also relate to your comment about sometimes it feels like there is no progress.  I just have to remind myself how bad it used to be and then I see it.  Originally he reacted to people, cars, bicycles, cats and dogs--even behind a fence--and now it's just dogs on the street and people who surprise him. I think Tara's class really helped Clyde.  She focused on controlled introductions to other dogs,  and since the class, it has really decreased the distance he can be before he is reactive and the ferocity of the reaction has really decreased as well.  I'm hoping to get him into a refresher course, but she does book up pretty quickly. The other thing that helped was going on a roadtrip!  I used your site to help plan it.
Amy@GoPetFriendly Oct 10, 2011 at 2:08 pm
Thanks so much for your advice, S.L. I'm definitely going to look Tara up when we get to Austin. Have you seen progress with your dog?
S.L. Oct 10, 2011 at 1:37 pm
I empathize with your reactive doggy predicament, as I have one too.  I highly recommend that you contact Tara Stermer of Training by Tara when you are in Austin.  She teaches dog reactivity classes and one of her techniques is to find each dog an "anchor dog" from her pack-- a dog like Chloe who calms the reactive dog down and serves as a good role model.