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Pet-Friendly Needs to Also be Human Friendly

We’re happy to bring you this guest post by Christine Gillow, author of Raising Ruby.

My husband Jeff and I have not taken a vacation without our 65-pound shepherd mix, Kiva, in nearly 13 years. Well, that’s not completely true; we once spent 3 days without her in Las Vegas, but we missed her desperately. Trust me, it took a lot of mojitos by the pool to get over it.

Kiva has frolicked, hiked, and doggie paddled in 21 states and she’s been our co-pilot on four cross-country drives. I always say that of the three of us in the car on long trips, she’s definitely the best-behaved! She’s a perfect traveler—patient and quiet during the ride, gleeful and eager as soon as we arrive. She’s also a perfect hotel guest.


Christine and Kiva

Kiva ‘n Me, Outer Banks of North Carolina – June 1999

Isn’t it true that canine travelers are usually the most polite? In all the years we’ve stayed in pet-friendly hotels, I’ve never once been woken up, witnessed anything unpleasant, or been disturbed by any canine guests. Most people wouldn’t even think to bring their pets on vacation if the furry ones weren’t well-mannered travelers. So why do some hotels try to overcharge and under deliver on their pet-friendly rooms?

In our early travels with Kiva, affordable pet-friendly accommodations were challenging to find. But over the past few years we’ve had no trouble locating hotels that accept larger dogs. Of course, when it comes to the rooms, it’s a roll of the dice. Most pet-friendly rooms are great, but they can vary, even within the same chain. The pet-friendly room might wind up being very small, or maybe it’s inconveniently located, or has a beautiful view of a brick wall. But as long as the hotel is maintained well and the room is very clean, I’m happy. For us, traveling with dogs means it’s a dog-centered vacation—we spend most of the day outdoors, and in the evening it’s always take-out enjoyed in the room with the company of our best friends.


Kiva and Jeff Hiking in Moab, UT – May 2009

Last fall, we took an off-season road trip to Aspen, CO with Kiva and our 18-month-old Labrador retriever/golden retriever service puppy in training, Ruby. We prefer to travel off-season with our dogs so we can all enjoy the temperate weather and lack of crowds. Plus, it’s easier to find reasonable hotel rates. Because we need pet-friendly lodging, I usually call around beforehand just to be safe, but this time I didn’t book a room ahead. It was off-peak in Aspen—before ski season but with the leaves already off the trees—we just hopped in the car and didn’t bother with reservations. It was a beautiful ride from Denver due west, and the weather was glorious. But as we rolled into town in late afternoon, I started to get slightly concerned…because let’s be honest, we did need accommodations for two fairly large dogs.

We pulled up to a hotel that looked promising. It had plenty of grassy areas and the parking was convenient. The lobby was small but orderly, and yes, they accepted dogs. We were given a rate of $119 per night (plus tax); fair enough, although they also charged a $75 non-refundable pet fee which I thought was high. I was just relieved that they had no issue with the two dogs, so we booked the pet-friendly accommodations for two nights, got our bags out of the car, and took the dogs to the room.

You may have noticed that I’ve not mentioned the name of this hotel. And I’m not going to, because I have a little more consideration than this hotel’s management had for us.

We walked upstairs and opened the door. The room was unclean. It smelled. Things were stained and sticky. There was a cobweb hanging from the corner of the ceiling that was easily the size of a pillow … and let’s not even talk about the pillows.

It was unacceptable, but at the same time, we were worried. We had never been to Aspen before and it’s an expensive town. Was this all we could get in Aspen at a reasonable price, even off-season, with two dogs?

We needed to stretch our legs after the drive, so we left the room and took the dogs for a walk. We stopped into a couple of hotels along the way and they were happy to show us their pet-friendly rooms. Each was clean and had nice accommodations for about the same price as the first place. Relieved, we headed back, and I settled the dogs in the car as Jeff went to the front desk to check out. Or so he intended.

Management wasn’t having it. Because it had been exactly one hour since the time we checked in, the manager on duty would not refund our money. For both nights! He was not only impolite and insulting, he also refused to check the room to verify our claim that it was unclean and unacceptable.

My husband came back to the car, livid. I grabbed my phone and finally got a hold of a senior manager who was “not actually on site.” That person was even more rude and argumentative than the first. Under no circumstances would he consider a refund and he would only offer a small discount on the two nights. I told him I had no intention of either staying in or paying for a room in that condition, I would immediately put the charge in dispute with my credit card company, and I was going to post our experience with this hotel on every travel site on the web I could find, including GoPetFriendly!

Perhaps that’s what finally got through to him.

Minutes later, he called back. Totally different tone of voice. He had gone up to see the room himself (wasn’t he off-site?) and found it exactly as we had described it. Apologies. Full refund.

An hour later, Kiva and Ruby were happily munching treats while my stressed-out husband and I started to relax over a bottle of wine. This time we were in an awesome pet-friendly hotel with the bonus of a great location for hiking with the dogs. To be honest, I would never even have considered this particular upscale chain because of cost (especially in Aspen), but after the horrendous experience at the first hotel, we just took a chance and stopped in to speak with the manager. The off-season rate we were given was around $200 per night—over our budget, but they don’t charge an extra pet fee, so that made the total price comparable to the first hotel. And it was for a suite! With a fireplace and two balconies! It was Ruby’s last weekend with us, a special occasion, so we just couldn’t refuse.

The hotel had a great pet-accessible outdoor lounge with beautiful views and they also provided special pet amenities. The staff was warm and friendly, too. I’d love to mention the name of this chain, but I wouldn’t want a web search to result in linking their name with the negative treatment from the other hotel described above. If you’re curious, drop me a line over at Raising Ruby and I’ll give you the scoop!


Ruby

Service Puppy Ruby in Aspen, CO – November 2010

After traveling with pets for years, I never would have expected a situation like this, but it happens. Learn from our near-disaster experience! We did!

TIPS

Always ask to see the room before you check in. The staff at a reputable hotel will be happy to show you their pet-friendly accommodations.

Never feel you have to take an unclean, unsanitary, or otherwise unacceptable room just because you’re traveling with pets.

• A hotel may advertise itself online as “pet-friendly” and rank very high with that search term, but that does not automatically mean it’s the best choice in town.

Ask if the hotel provides special amenities for your pets. Some even offer discounts at local pet supply retailers.

Off–season travel means wider pet-friendly availability and great rates in hotels that are typically in a much higher price range. It also means no crowds and comfortable weather for pets!

 

GPF Note: You, like Christine, can also write a review of the places you stay on the GoPetFriendly website to help other pet travelers decide which hotels are right for them.


Christine Gillow blogs at Raising Ruby about her experience training and caring for a  golden/lab service puppy for Canine Partners of the Rockies (CaPR). Ruby is currently in training to become a service dog for an individual with a mobility-related disability. CaPR raises, trains and places highly-skilled service dogs with Colorado residents to facilitate their greater independence. CaPR is accredited by Assistance Dogs International.

Photo Credit: All photos in this post are by Christine and Jeff Gillow

Comments

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Angela Lynn Mar 30, 2011 at 11:16 pm
Thanks for sharing this story of yours to us. A lot of people really want to travel with their pet but oftentimes they kinda hesitant to pursue their plans for so many reasons like your concern too. Since not all hotels are accepting dogs with all their heart you should then search first for the right hotel/s that accept dogs so there's no problem when you are there already. I'm glad you shared that story to everyone here.
Amy@GoPetFriendly Mar 2, 2011 at 5:03 pm
We love Aspen too, Deborah! We spent a day there last summer and had a great time (other than loosing our camera, which we eventually got back). I'm hoping we can get there again this year - maybe in the early fall.
Deborah Flick Mar 2, 2011 at 1:44 am
What a great post! Generally, Aspen is extremely pet-friendly. I'm so glad you found a lovely hotel with great service.
ChristineGillow Feb 20, 2011 at 11:15 pm
Hey K! Thanks for your comment and for your email, great to hear from you. I do think that hotel learned from the experience...but I *know* I did!
Amy@GoPetFriendly Feb 20, 2011 at 7:42 pm
So true! Unless we can read reviews or get personal recommendations, how will we know the places that are REALLY pet friendly so we can support them? It takes a few minutes, but it's a great way to show your appreciation (or outrage) for a place that left an impression.
Amy@GoPetFriendly Feb 20, 2011 at 7:39 pm
I'm so sorry to hear that Elizabeth! For all the progress we've made, there are still some disappointing places out there. I hope you expressed your feelings to the management and wrote a review of the place on GoPetFriendly so we can avoid it!
Amy@GoPetFriendly Feb 20, 2011 at 7:35 pm
Hi Suzette! Thanks for stopping by. I hope you find some good information here and that you have many fantastic vacations with your new puppy. If there are ever any questions we can answer for you, please let me know. Perhaps we'll turn it into a blog post! :-)
Amy@GoPetFriendly Feb 20, 2011 at 7:33 pm
I so agree, Pamela! We're really fortunate that so many places, from arboretums to wineries, now welcome our pets. Most people that travel with their pets remember the old days and are grateful for the change. And, even though we've come a long way, I envision traveling with even less restrictions some day. I'd love to have the freedom to take the dogs with us like Europeans do!
AVCr8teur Feb 19, 2011 at 9:59 pm
Sorry to hear about your experience, but I'm glad it worked out in the end. Glad to hear you publicly reviewed both hotels. People need to know and hopefully the bad service hotel learned a valuable lesson.
Michele Feb 18, 2011 at 1:57 pm
Wow, sorry you had such a bad experience. I would mention the name of the hotel. When I travel, and if I have any problems, I usually pull the press card. I do write for a number of publications--so I use that if I have to. Fortunately, it is very rare.
Lori Jablons Feb 18, 2011 at 4:47 am
Christine, this is great. (The photos are also gorgeous!) Thanks for writing about this. I want to take my pups on a trip now!
Navy06870 Feb 18, 2011 at 4:42 am
Christine, thanks for taking the time to write such an informative article. We recently got a puppy and are looking forward to many wonderful vacations with him. I'll be sure to take your advice and check out the room before we register! This looks like a great blog, I've bookmarked it and look forward to reading more helpful hints for traveling with our new best friend. I've also looked at your blog and enjoyed reading all about Ruby and Kiva....keep up the good work. Thank you for sharing. Suzette
Farley's Mom Feb 18, 2011 at 2:12 am
Excellent advice Christine! Roo and Kiva deserve the best, and I'm glad you stood your ground and were able to depart on a happier vacation.
BobS12965 Feb 18, 2011 at 1:50 am
Thanks for the great advice and useful tips. You are absolutely right that hotels should be human friendly! People that travel with their pets should be accomodated like eveyone else. I really enjoyed reading about your experiences with Kiva and Ruby.
Pamela Feb 18, 2011 at 1:09 am
What a horror story. I'm glad you were able to get satisfaction in the end. It makes me feel very fortunate for all the friendly businesses that have allowed us to bring our dogs--not just hotels, but rental homes, ferries, boat tours, restaurants, and shops.
Karen Feb 18, 2011 at 12:14 am
Christine, So great to hear from you. Great tip and pictures (well written and useful). Thanks for alerting me. DDFL - Karen
ChristineGillow Feb 17, 2011 at 11:37 pm
BrownDog's Momma - Yep, we always used to get stuck in the smoking room too! :P Happens far less frequently now, though. Mathewsem - Thank you forever and ever for letting your (and Zoe's) baby Sparkle become our baby Kiva. :)
Mathewsem Feb 17, 2011 at 7:31 pm
My baby Sparkle.....what a wonderful life she is having.
Jshellhammer Feb 17, 2011 at 5:16 pm
Great article, Christine. I was mesmerized, having had my own experiences along these lines in Aspen and elsewhere. But Nebraska is the worst. The guy at the desk refused my dog, while he stood there smoking a cigarette.
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Roxanne Hawn Feb 17, 2011 at 4:41 pm
I'm outraged for you. These are awesome tips. I'm going to bookmark right now. Thanks, Christine!
Feb 17, 2011 at 4:26 pm
Very useful advice. And good for you for standing up for your rights!
Elizabeth Feb 17, 2011 at 3:57 pm
Great article. I had a similar experience recently driving from Texas to Florida. I learned a little late to ask to see the room first. Good point!
Hawk aka Browndog Feb 17, 2011 at 2:34 pm
Loved the insight! Hubby's been on a rampage that they always give you the worst location and a smoking room...but we don't want to board the boy. We've traveled with dog(s) for years, suddenly he's hating staying anywhere but in our own bed. BrownDog's Momma